Archive | February 2012

New Avenues threw Random Acts of Kindness

There are many ways of showing random acts of kindness. Here’s a couple of mine. It’s very upsetting for me to hear others talk badly about them self’s or speak trash of others. That’s one major pet peeve of mine.  If people around me talk negative of others, I have a tendency to walk away. There have been times where I would have to up front say that if anyone’s going to gossip that I will not take part in it. They just look at me like I’m crazy and If I’m for real. LOL.. I like to watch their facial expressions.

The other negative is to hear someone speak badly of them self. This of course is low self esteem. I have heard someone at work more than once say that they are stupid. It does not take me long to reply back to them and say no they are not. I have heard people out in the general public saying the same thing. People with low self esteem really need random acts of kindness. If more people would just speak up with positive words, it would make a really big difference for them. It will also help you as well.

If you feel that you had a hard time in life and are bitter inside. Random acts of kindness will take that bitterness away. It makes me feel good inside knowing that I helped someone else. To make a difference in someone’s  life.

So, what random act of kindness have you done? Please leave a comment if you like.

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2012: The New Positive World

Dealing with the past years hardship of unemployment. More and more people have opened up to the spiritual world for help. By sending out prayers of hope for employment. We are always heard, but we must understand that it is all in the Divine timing. Everything happens at a certain time for a reason. The reason is in your best interest and we must keep the faith even after our prayers have been heard.

That is the main key right there. So many as well as I have forgotten to give thanks for everything we have once we are fine. To feel in your heart how grateful you are to provide for your family or your self is something one should include in prayer. When I look back upon my hardships, I truly feel very grateful today.

When you are around others that are going through hardships. Lift them up with some positive words. It will truly make a big difference in the way they feel. Give them words of encouragement to keep doing the very best they can. They will see the light at the end of the tunnel. The more positive words you spread, the greater the world becomes. Plus you will feel the light within your heart. You will see things in a positive way and life will get easier.

Remember, life’s tribulations are a part of life.  How we handle them matters.

Slow as a turtle, but smart as a whip

What is it about someone that is slow but yet picks up on certain things faster than others. For the longest time I have been so frustrated with this about myself, that I really didn’t think of all the positive sides of my slowness. Then dealing with my deafness was frustrating as well, but yes there are positive sides to that too. For instance, I can sleep on my good ear and not hear anything that would keep me up. LOL..