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Keeping the peace

With all the different emotions that are within us, it’s sometimes can be hard to keep the hurt feelings from surfacing. The things people say and do can make it difficult to remain calm. When we keep the peace in a time where we normally would slash back, is the most strength one could hold.  By showing peace to the other person is showing them that you have better judgement on emotional outburst. To feel the emotion and remain calm is learning we can overcome it. We gain strength each time we do.  By not adding coals to the flame is by far a better choice.  I have had to tell myself these same words in times of trial. By learning to control my sensitivity towards others and know that they may be going through greater challenges than myself.  This helps me maintain kindness and calmness with in me. We all have stressful times. But by knowing we have control over the outcome of our feelings is a great achievement. We can take charge of things and turn them around to make for a better situation. Now that’s a powerful idea.

There was a time at work when someone was not in a very good mood. Which I believe we have all come across this situation a time or two in our lives. At that point I let my emotions get in the way, but I did not say anything to them. But instead, I let it sit heavy on my heart. My sensitive side took over and began to make my day miserable. Well, luckily my day was almost over. I would not say anything about the person’s name to anyone else.  This would start a small flame with other co workers. It’s almost like gossip. My day ended and I had to stop to get gas in my car. When I pulled up and got out. I looked down and there was a peace sign drawn on the cement right below the driver’s side. That was the beginning of a sign for my heart. I walked over to pay for the gas and went back to the car to start filling up. As I began to fill the car up, I looked at the ground again. I said Peace and looked up at the clouds and noticed a formation of “&”. Then I said peace and love. Then a figure of a smiling cat formed. So my words were correct (Clairvoyance) and my heaviness in my heart was lifted. Sometimes, it’s best to let it go and work with your feelings instead of starting a flame.

We create our world around us and everything we do makes us accountable in our actions. It’s all in the tone of our voices and what comes out of our mouths. This will determine the outcome of life’s little test. Just by walking away for a while to gather better words and tone will make a huge difference in how you respond to them. I feel we have enough stress in this life time of all we have to learn. Also all of what we have to go through to learn of new paths in our lives. The stress of hard times can be avoided as long as we hold confidence in our hearts to know the hard time will go away. They really and truly do go away.  By keeping a positive attitude and never giving up is the key to overcoming tribulations. We all go through different stages in our lives that we have to experience. It’s apart of our paths on this plane call Earth.  We all go through the hard and good times. It’s all in what we have to learn in order to help the next person and to help us in our next life time. There will come a time when someone will be going through what you have over come. Then you can instill in their hearts that it’s temporary, and that things will get better.

When we learn to get along with each other, we set the course of our lives to a peaceful path. With each step of getting better in our judgement and continuance of learned lessons. We further our knowledge of our self’s and our emotions. One by one, we create a peaceful world. One by one, we gather the greatest of good karma.

How do you deal with bad emotions from others? Are there other outlets that help you cope and overcome them?

The Good Things in Life

There are those moments when we look at something not realizing that we were being turned to look. There was not of a sound but a knowing to turn around. Our minds are very receptive and can be pulled in directions we never thought we could be in. If we believe and feel that something is not right, chances are your intuition is correct. You know when something feels right because of that good feeling inside. Also your intuition helps guide you as well. We all are blessed with a safety network within our minds. That would be our intuition. Now it’s up to us to figure out if our actions will bring good karma or bad karma. Knowing what to do is a part of a lesson we all must learn. What we choose to do is up to us to know the right thing. Sometimes we choose the wrong over the right due to not fully knowing what to do. There is also that pulling from Satin that loves to mingle in our business to make us do the wrong things. It’s up to us to make sure to do the right things, so that we don’t develop a lot of bad karma. If there is a lot of bad Karma, then we have to pay our Karma debts.

Our actions now are being recorded and stored in our karma chart for our next life. What we do in this life time does affect our next one. So by choosing good words and actions helps us live a better life next time around. You know those old words of “Do unto others as they would have done unto you.”  It’s very true and it will play a large role in your next life time. For example, Like if someone does a harsh crime like incest? Then the person will have to pay back the debt by having the experience of being sexually molested as a child them self’s. This becomes a horrific cycle of bad Karma. The only way to stop this horrific cycle of bad karma is now, with us. It starts with us acknowledging it and changing our habits. It not only helps our next lifetime, but it does help our present time. By believing in our self’s of all the good we have inside. We make life so much more enjoyable. We gain so much happiness after we realize that we have that opportunity to make positive changes in our lives. That we can show others that we are great by showing love and gratitude towards life’s lessons. To show love and compassion towards others in how they feel. Showing respect and love is a key element towards well-being. Knowing what is right and wrong is in our hearts. Once we know the truth, the truth will set us free. We are rewarded in so many ways once we see the light.

Thoughts Heard Threw The Heart

Have you ever watched the movie “Contact”  starring  Jodie Foster? Wonderful movie but can be related in two different ways. Some would say it’s about aliens, then others say it’s about heaven. First I thought the first option, aliens. But now a few years later, I have come to realize it’s of heaven. Well no, I have not been there. Not in this life time as of yet. It’s the generalization at the end of the movie and how the energy walked up to Jodie Foster presenting himself as her father. Have you ever thought about  how every living thing on Earth is of energy.  Well if all is made of energy, so is heaven. Just as God has said ” I made you in my image”.

Our energy can be tapped into from above once we have at free will, opened the door. Our world has so many different kinds energy. Finding the right balance of energy within each of us holds the key to happiness. This also holds the key to knowledge, and intuition. I’m speaking in terms of ideas in creativeness, and letting intuition guide us to a better happiness. It’s amazing how things change for the better, when you let in the light. But by doing so, you are letting go of old ways, and learning a new way thinking . A positive way of thinking, and blocking the negative out from your mind. I have done so, and have learned so much. There has been so many wonderful things happening in my life. When I pray for something I need, God always provides. It may not be at that exact time when I receive help, but when he does he give more than expected.

When emotions come from the heart, but are lead by our thoughts.  Our thoughts become our actions. In other words, If you feel jealousy you would have displayed something that is of no good. To be envious is the dark side taking over your mind. It is of Satan controlling our emotions.  That’s his way of holding us captive. Everything of negativity is of no good and is of Satan’s hold on us. There is a long list of emotions that really hinder our happiness if you think about it. Letting go of old ways of thinking, and our bad emotional thought  habits puts us in a happier realm. Just by letting it go, we will start to feel better. It takes time and patience. Most of all it takes control of one’s own mind.

Our hearts and thoughts are being heard from above. We are being watched and lead to our destined paths. I had to open the door to let help in. After doing so, there has been a greater light shinning within to share with others. By changing my thoughts I have changed the strength of my energy to a higher frequency. When a bad thought comes to my mind, I acknowledge it and cast it out. With each day of practicing controlling my bad thoughts, and acknowledging the thoughts keep them from re-accruing. This has helped me  greatly with my confidence and stance in life. With time and practice, one’s mind will be less congested with negative energy. With years of built up negative thinking and society harshness, it takes time to correct.

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New Avenues threw Random Acts of Kindness

There are many ways of showing random acts of kindness. Here’s a couple of mine. It’s very upsetting for me to hear others talk badly about them self’s or speak trash of others. That’s one major pet peeve of mine.  If people around me talk negative of others, I have a tendency to walk away. There have been times where I would have to up front say that if anyone’s going to gossip that I will not take part in it. They just look at me like I’m crazy and If I’m for real. LOL.. I like to watch their facial expressions.

The other negative is to hear someone speak badly of them self. This of course is low self esteem. I have heard someone at work more than once say that they are stupid. It does not take me long to reply back to them and say no they are not. I have heard people out in the general public saying the same thing. People with low self esteem really need random acts of kindness. If more people would just speak up with positive words, it would make a really big difference for them. It will also help you as well.

If you feel that you had a hard time in life and are bitter inside. Random acts of kindness will take that bitterness away. It makes me feel good inside knowing that I helped someone else. To make a difference in someone’s  life.

So, what random act of kindness have you done? Please leave a comment if you like.

2012: The New Positive World

Dealing with the past years hardship of unemployment. More and more people have opened up to the spiritual world for help. By sending out prayers of hope for employment. We are always heard, but we must understand that it is all in the Divine timing. Everything happens at a certain time for a reason. The reason is in your best interest and we must keep the faith even after our prayers have been heard.

That is the main key right there. So many as well as I have forgotten to give thanks for everything we have once we are fine. To feel in your heart how grateful you are to provide for your family or your self is something one should include in prayer. When I look back upon my hardships, I truly feel very grateful today.

When you are around others that are going through hardships. Lift them up with some positive words. It will truly make a big difference in the way they feel. Give them words of encouragement to keep doing the very best they can. They will see the light at the end of the tunnel. The more positive words you spread, the greater the world becomes. Plus you will feel the light within your heart. You will see things in a positive way and life will get easier.

Remember, life’s tribulations are a part of life.  How we handle them matters.